Sunday, June 25, 2023

Adventures at Cottontail Cottage

 
Feeling summery? That little quilt part was a collaged hat that I made long ago for one of those art quilt group projects where each person stated a subject and 2 colors and then everyone made something meeting those requirements.  I think this was “hat” and orange and yellow. Frankly the blocks were so varied in each set that I thought the resulting quilts (for those who assembled them) were pretty strange. But I did like this little block and the challenge was fun. Anyway, it says summer to me, so here you go. 

It's been another one of those odd months. No surprise, really, after losing my dad... so much emotion to process, so many tasks to handle, plus work and life and all. But summer is here on Whidbey Island, and I'm enjoying remembering summer - the early morning bell from the summer camp across the lake, the distant sound of children playing, the very long dusky summer evenings. 

I have made yet another discovery about life here on the island. I've written about the abundance of bunnies on the south end of the island, and there are quite a few that hop around my yard in the early morning. Well, between my several trips to California and his own travels, my lawn mower guy (“the Lawn Ranger”) and I were not able to connect and as a result my lawn has grown and grown and grown. It is now more a wildflower/grass prairie. Quite pretty in its own way. Here is Rosie roaming in the grass.
 
 
But a few days ago, Rosie came to me with something in her mouth. I thought it was a pinecone. No, it was a teeny baby bunny. ACK! Luckily Rosie is a gentle soul and retrievers have notoriously soft mouths -- so she didn't bite or maul it, and it was obviously alive but so newborn that its eyes weren't open yet. I carefully scooped it up and off I went to see if I could find the nest.
 

I did not take this picture and this is not my nest, but I post it here to show what one looks like.

It took a lot of hunting, but I finally found the spot I think it might have been -- there were some tufts of fur around a burrow sort of hole, so I placed the baby in there, bent some grass over it, and hoped for the best.

When I checked the next morning, there were no bunnies in sight and the burrow was empty. So I hoped that mama came and found her baby and took it to safety. 

Unfortunately, later that day, after I'd restricted the dogs to another area of the yard, Rosie came to me with that look in her eye.... which means something in her mouth. Yep, another baby. Also alive. I did not know where it came from but took it back to the original burrow, hoping, hoping.
 
 
 
I've now put stakes around the bunny area and am keeping the dogs on leash in the yard at all times. Research tells me that babies become independent in about 3 weeks, so I will hope that by then the dogs can roam freely without finding any surprises. 

Big lesson learned? Keep the lawn mowed down SHORT at this time of year, so the bunnies will nest elsewhere. Incidentally, when I read up on bunny nests, one expert said that they often nest in yards of homes with big dogs -- because the mama knows it is safer and there are less likely to be more dangerous predators like cats and raccoons. Smart mommy bunny, eh?

I really do enjoy seeing the bunnies about and have thought that I'm living in a Cottontail Cottage, but the possibility of the dogs disrupting babies in their nest is not something I want to do every summer.


 
Meanwhile, there was this. In May, when I was on my way to California to see my dad, I stopped to get breakfast -- and I tripped and fell in a parking lot. I had what I now know is, in medical terms, a FOOSH -- "fall on out-stretched hands." My hands were scraped and definitely sore but I felt around and nothing felt seriously hurt, no sense of anything broken, so I cleaned myself off and continued on my way. Once I got to California, my sister and I were absorbed with my dad and his care, so I just took advil and did some icing from time to time. Well, fast-forward to two weeks later when, back home, my dr suggested xrays of both hands and wrists. Turns out I have a small fracture in one hand and a bone bruise and soft tissue injury in the other. I came away with a splint on one and instructions to wrap the other wrist when it was sore.
 
So - good news was nothing serious, no surgery needed, nothing displaced, etc. (Yes, friends, you are right, I broke my wrist LAST March in a similar FOOSH fall. But that was way worse.) This has mainly been inconvenient -- and I have learned that having something wrapped on BOTH hands makes me very very cranky. VERY CRANKY. I am at the tail end of healing, so that is good. But sheesh. I know that both falls (last year and this) were when I was seriously tired and distracted and stressed, and probably paying less attention to my feet than I should have been, but I'm still boosting my vitamin D and have a bone density test scheduled for next month. I don't want to do this any more. 
 
 The other good news is that with the left hand pretty functional, I was able to resume quilting on my longarm!


One more random thing making me happy. I was in a Barnes and Noble in California and came upon this insulated metal tumbler from Rifle Paper company. I love their pretty patterns so it came home with me. It keeps my morning coffee very hot so I can linger on the deck, and it makes me happy every day.


What’s making you happy these days? 
 

Sunday, June 4, 2023

Time and Other Passings

     I am surprised to see how much time has passed since my last blog post, and yet I know that the past few months have slid by because of many challenges. During that time, I traveled back to Northern California several times to see my ailing dad, and spend time with him and my sister. I was able to be there with them when my dad passed away on May 16. What a difficult goodbye that was, and yet we knew that him being at home, pain-free, under the care of a an amazing hospice team, and with friends and family visiting, made the end of his life as good as it could have been. 

     My dad was a big presence in our lives. My sister and I attribute our love of all things creative to him, as he was a relentlessly energetic and creative “maker.” When other parents might have given their kids toys, my dad took us to the hobby store and let us pick out kits and discover new things to make. We learned that hands-on work ethic and the development of an artistic eye from him, to be sure. It is no accident that all three of us kids have made creativity a significant part of our adult lives. 

     My dad had a lifelong, obsessive love of cars. I teased him when I was in college that he never knew the names of my friends but could identify them instantly by their cars. Some years back, I found this photo of him from the early 1950’s, perched on his beloved 1949 Mercury. When he told me that he had to sell the car to pay the hospital bill after my sister was born, I knew I needed to make an art quilt about it. 



     Now we go forward, thinking of him and my mom and my brother somewhere together. If there is a heaven, I’m sure my dad is driving a Ferrari there. 

       So, I am recalculating once again, adjusting to the changed size of my family and knowing that my parents are, finally, free of the pain and frustrations that plagued their last years. I am working on getting caught up on work and home and the business that comes with day to day life. 

       It would be easier if I had two functional hands, but… oops. While driving to California a few weeks ago, I tripped in a parking lot and did one of those outstretched hand falls. When I got to California, I was immersed in events around my dad’s care and passing, so did not appreciate until I returned home that my left hand was, perhaps, more sore than it should have been. I learned that there is a small fracture that requires stabilizing by means of a rather cumbersome splint.  Ah, well.  

      This, too, shall pass.